Monday, December 10, 2007

Bitches and Ho's

Episode 4: The so called feminist movement.
So while I'm at college I decided to strive to make myself a better person. I've been doing a lot of work on myself and one of them that is working well is swearing off calling girls bitches. Sometimes it slips but I don't use it much anymore. But I just wanted to give my view of this whole topic and why I did it in the first place. Though it really pisses me off that I can't call them that because they are sometimes. I often find myself thinking "And they wonder why we call them bitches."
~Andy

So there is a big deal going on right now, a lot of girls my age trying to rally against rappers and rap songs that are demeaning to women. That's one half. They other half is down with it unless they themselves are being called a bitch. One time I went into school with and orange shirt and the home depot logo, but it said "The HO Depot" instead. I thought it was a cool joke. Jordan Garegnani and some other of my friends that were girls said "Nice shirt Andy." But I went to the cafeteria and these girls were looking at my like I was the biggest asshole ever for wearing it. I know these girls well enough to know that they all listen to rap. I heard them saying that if I thought this was a funny joke I was wrong. But they didn't care when Ludacris wore it in the "Holiday Inn" music video. Even Sarah Price's dad found it hilarious. And they wonder why we call them bitches.

Rap music made me do it. Ice Cube has a new song out titled just that, and every chorus he lists off a bunch of different things rap music has made us do. Here are a few from his song:
If I call you a nigga, ain't nothin to it, gangsta rap made me do it.
If I act like a pimp, ain't nothin to it, gangsta rap made me do it.
If I call you a nappy headed ho, headed ho ain't nothin to it, gangsta rap made me do it.
If I call you a bitch, ain't nothin to it, gangsta rap made me do it.
If I fuck up the planet, ain't nothin to it, gangsta rap made me do it.
And so forth. So girls get mad about all of these things pretty much. There is just so much nagging and complaining that comes with it.(I bet female dogs don't liked being called bitches either but what are they gonna do) Yeah I know they see it as degrading, but if they wanna make rap songs and how worthless men our and figure out a name for us, I wouldn't care. Just don't ruin what we have(until 2010 when rap is no longer the main music). And they wonder why we call them bitches.

Look at Hilary Clinton. No wonder Bill looked for fun elsewhere dude, she is a bitch. Some girls just are man, and that's why these girls that are mad about this need to understand we aren't talking about them unless they play into it. Example. If a guy went to a girl, said, "What's up bitch?" If you play along with it, then your a bitch, cause you're playing into the stereotype. If you get pissed at him, your a bitch. If you just walk away, or tell him you don't like to be called that without getting mad, then he is a bitch.

So just in general for being a better person I will stop. I might think it, but I will never disrespect them personally or verbally to anyone. But there out there man, even if it's not you ladies, it's a fact. Its just like with anything else in real life. If you don't like Howard Stern, don't listen to him. If you don't wanna be called a bitch, don't be one. But face it ladies, some of them out there are, so stop defending them to and ruining it for everyone else! And they wonder why we call them bitches(but not me though).